Are you hoping to find a girl who you can be in a steady relationship with? This article will go over some of the things you can do that will help your chances with any girl.
Know what type of girl you’re looking for. Make a list of traits that appeal to you, such as intelligence, looks, ambition, sense of humor, or respect for other people’s feelings.
Resolve old hurts and disappointments. Make sure you’re ready for a new relationship by setting aside any grievances about old girlfriends.
Attract the type of girl you’re looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
Learn how to make a girl feel good about herself by taking an interest in her life and her aspirations.
Consider any unattached girls at your school or work. Do any of them match the qualities that you want in a girlfriend?
Get involved in activities that you enjoy to give yourself the chance to meet new girls. Expand your horizons and your circle of friends.
If you have your eye on a certain girl, let mutual friends know about your interest in her. Ask someone you trust to discreetly tell her about your interest.
If you don’t have the nerve to directly approach a girl who has caught your eye, consider being her secret admirer for a while. Send her sweet, anonymous messages or notes (with a few subtle clues about your identity) to let her know about your interest in her.
Once you are pretty sure that there’s strong mutual attraction, ask her to be your girlfriend. You can do this in a big, creative way or simply ask her in person. Be sure to never ask this over text or chat (even just over the phone is questionable). Don’t change your Facebook relationship status or refer to her as your girlfriend until she responds!
Be patient. Life doesn’t normally work on the schedule you envision. Your future girlfriend might cross your path tomorrow or two years from now. A healthy relationship will color your world no matter how old you are, so don’t rush into things, or else you might end up forcing the wrong person into the girlfriend role, which will cause pain for everyone involved.